relationship is a special bond we have that God gave to know that you are someone and meaningful to another. it varies from girlfriends, boyfriends, BFFs, mother-daughter, the cat-cat owner and more la.
well this week, did a lot of conversations about personal relationships with the besties. shared and learned a lot too. and of course the main topic when it comes to us girls is : BOYS! haha. typical u think. well go and say ‘well, i do not have any one’ or ‘my man is fine. no problem’. but to me everyone should know this. all relationships are different in their own way, yet still none are perfect. we have our ups and downs. happiness and bitterness. all-fired-up and tired of all of it.
what should you do when things go bad? should you just go with the flow? go against it? be selfish to put your own matters first? should you? then you try to go through a lot of different options and ways to go about it then still end up where you started.
me, myself being in a pretty darn long period relationship plus the long-distance factors really puts my sanity and priorities to the test. why? because balance is the key. and at most times, i find myself still in the middle of an argument or a situation that just wont go away. spiritually, i am thirsty for God; yearning for more of His love. physically, sometimes i am tired to be in any commitment anymore but at times i am so happy that i forget the present. mentally, i am struggling to be realistic and feeding my own personal needs.
so, if you are at your low right now..i just want to share that i believe God has marvelous plans for you and me. that no matter what happens in any of your relationships today, it wont be as good as what is to come because God made it that way. He made all things wonderful so that you can experience His love and joy day by day. He is just waiting for you to believe it and to know - yes, He is that good to you and me. put your priorities straight. talk to God and share it with your friends. cause i do and it fells great.
and as for now, i am thankful and ever grateful for what i have now with my-man. he has been a great companion. thank you dear E.L.R! Love You with all my heart..
(us way back in 2006)
and and please do express how you appreciate one another. its then you know why were you in the relationship in the beginning. :)
God Bless.
